Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously.
We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church.
I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him.
It's hard right now because he's on a general surgery rotation so his hours suck and I never see him.