It started making me feel very nervous and apprehensive at the thought of having a family, and having all of his time be consumed by his work. I do get a little frustrated when I make dinner but he's just too tired to eat with me after working.
I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals.
Break up with her.